Yeah, I've never bought that line that men have these uncontrolable urges. Like people said above, you don't chop people's heads off because you're mad, etc. Humans have the ability to make conscious choices, and I really do wonder how some men justify their behavior. Having had several boyfriends cheat on me (not that I'm bitter), I think it really is some sorta insecurity/self-esteem issue. Some people shouldn't be allowed to have serious relationships until they've been through serious therapy I think! But cheers to the good fellows like Shawn and Aaron, and two fellas who are still my friends, the above-commenting Wade and Steve...Nobody's perfect, but I think it's a matter of if people learn from their mistakes or just keep pulling this shit over and over again that counts.